This isn’t the first time I’ve talked about no guts no glory, but it is a first with Guest Expert Ling Agaran, Beauty Artist Success Coach!

It really doesn’t matter where you are in your life, this all applies, especially if you are an entrepreneurial woman ready for more!

? Are you feeling like you need a change from the everyday routine?
? Are you scared of leaving your comfort zones?
? Are you worried that you’ll make the wrong decision?

Transition, change, whatever you want to call it, it is an inevitable part of life.

We can choose to play small or we can choose to play in the big leagues, no regrets, no excuses.

Knowing is half the battle

Just knowing that you are in a transition point is a HUGE step because sometimes we don’t even realize it’s happening.

How do you know you’re in a transition or at a transition point? I wrote about it in my ebook, From Lost to Found, but here they are again in bullet form:

• You’re starting something new – new job, new career, new business, new relationship…
• You feel stuck in a routine that is so bla right now
• You feel like you’re on the edge, like if you don’t do something now…
• You can’t commit and simple things seem extremely difficult now for some reason
• You have no energy or zest for life
• You’re feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or stressed out!
• Your dreams are bigger than your reality
• Everything is coming together, like the Universe or God, whatever higher power you believe in, you have this feeling that everything is coming up <insert your name here>
• You’ve picked up a bad habit, or can’t seem to shake the ones you have even though you know you need to
• You’re living in the past or the future
• You’ve been following my journey

All of the above are some of the more obvious things you experience when you’re about to go through a big shift in your life.

So why do some people make it while others don’t? Let’s explore shall we?

Life begins at the edge of your comfort zone

Truer words have never been spoked and I am living proof. So is Ling. So is Oprah. So are the hundreds of thousands choosing to make it happen, regardless of any limiting belief they had.

You are a resourceful woman, don’t you forget it!

No matter where you’re from or what your background is, you can do anything if you have heart even if you have no idea what you’re doing.

Because let me let you in on a secret – there isn’t a soul on this earth that has it all figured out.

That heart is what says ‘I got this’ and then goes and gives her all even if she falls and even if she falls the next time, and the next time after that…

Think of learning to walk, that must have been the scariest thing, going from 4 to 2 legs essentially, but you did it, right?

All those firsts… first steps, first day of school, first presentation, first instrument, first job, first love, first break-up, first car, first house, first trip…

It’s the firsts that take extra guts but that’s because the reward is so high.

They are things that we are so petrified to do but we are so much stronger for having been through it, even if we fall flat on our face because we come out stronger on the other side if we choose to, that is.

Make a choice to take a chance and forever change your life! That’s my motto and I’m doing it, I’m living every day outside of comfort zones but on purpose.

Tony Robbins says: If you’re not growing, you’re dying, and that’s true.

If you’re not learning, if you’re not challenging yourself, moving forward, constantly asking how you can BE better so you can DO and HAVE more of what you want… that’s when overwhelm and confusion are feel so stuck because you’re stagnant!

Nothing else really matters in the end other than your happiness

Sure, your partner, kids, family pet or plant… they matter!

But at the end of the day, if YOU are not FEELING happy, how can you expect to BE happy?

How can you expect to run a 6 figure business? Give your family everything they need not just in terms of money, but love and happiness too.

When we’re growing, we’re progressing, and we have momentum – this is when we are in our happiest state.

If you are not healthy from the inside out, then you are not your best self, and you are going to keep struggling, or worse, waiting for things to just get better.

Like Jim Carrey says, you can’t just make a vision board and go and eat a sandwich – there are a whole lot of other things that you need to do according to the 12 Universal Laws.

In fact, I created a course about it called ‘Beyond the Law of Attraction’ and bundled it with my Vision Board Workshop both for just $97 ($67 savings)!

More than anything, I want you to know that you are in control of your own thoughts, your own path, your own behaviours.. you get to create the image you see in your crystal ball.

Once I figured that out, my life forever changed.

You underestimate what you can do in one year…

… And overestimate what you can do in 5… When I was using this method to make my vision board, I was asking myself things I never liked answering…

Things like, where do you see yourself in 12 months… who are you as a person? What do you love doing? What do you have in your life? What habits did you let go of? What habits did you create?

All these things that take so much thought and effort, but that’s because it’s your friggin life!

What a concept that is: to get clear on what you want. I still have clients to this day that are telling me things, partners, jobs that they’ve manifested all from me teaching them these concepts.

Transition is hard, it’s scary, but it doesn’t have to be as hard and scary when you believe in yourself, and you have the energy and mindset to make it happen!

Haters gonna hate, so you may as well just go for it!

Ok look, I’ll be the first person to say I like to be liked, but the difference now, is that if you don’t like me or what I’m about, that’s ok with me.

Before, I used to take things really personally, and really take it to heart when people didn’t like me.

Sooner or later, you realize that actually, if you don’t have haters, you’re doing something wrong.

Think about it, when you’re doing well, when you feel love, peace and abundance, people can’t help but want to be where you are.

And you know who your true friends are because they’re still there pushing you through to the next level.

People who put you down, or who judge you by your actions, they are projecting. They WISH they could do half the things you do, only they don’t.

Not because they can’t, but because they don’t want to or just haven’t thought of a good enough reason yet.

These are the people that make excuses, that place blame, that don’t have boundaries, that feel that everything happens to them and not for them.

What have you got to lose?

I’m not telling you anything you haven’t already heard… what is honestly the worst that could happen?

Every choice you make, and don’t make, has a cost or value associated to it.

You choosing to go back to school is going to cost you $40,000 or so… Finding a mentor or course that can teach you exactly what you need can be a fraction of that… and delivered and achieved in a fraction of the time.

We are faced with choices every day of our lives, and each choice shapes the next one, and the next one…

How you do anything is how you do everything, so you have to decide what have you got to lose? and what could you stand to gain?

Dare to be different

Dare to dream, but don’t stop there, dare to make your dreams a reality.

Dare to challenge the status quo. Dare to do things you’ve never done before. Dare to make mistakes and fall down a few times.

Dare to be free, to grow, and to be the person you know deep down is calling you.

I hope this has give you some good strategies to look fear in the face and go for it…to trust yourself and your intuition… and to live your greatest adventure!

Much love,

Nat

Life Strategies with Nat for the Entrepreneurial Woman

If you tuned in live, you’ll know we had some technical difficulties and Ling couldn’t join us on Tuesday, but we’re catching up today!

The beauty of entrepreneurship and being able to handle anything that comes up!

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